Let
me start by saying that there are good ways to get rid of clutter and there are
bad ways to get rid of clutter. The bad way is the route we usually take when we
get disgusted with the fact that we have too many things all over the place,
usually after we have stubbed our toe in the middle of the night on something
that the kids or the dog left out, and then decide to get rid of everything. I
know this because we have all been there more than once.
What
happens is that we end up getting rid of things that cannot be replaced and are
gone forever. Like everything else, clutter has to be evaluated before you get
rid of it. And you should also make sure to keep good stewardship in mind, and
not discarding things that other people can use, even if you no longer want
them.
The
good way to get rid of clutter is the way that I now use. I keep give away boxes
in my garage and then I go through my home periodically and get rid of clutter
in the places that is most likely collects such as closets, storage rooms and
that all of the other cubby holes things end up getting tucked if not being used
for awhile. Once the giveaway boxes are full, I donate them to one of the many
charity organizations in our area.
There
are some things, however, that are not meant for charity as they are too worn ,
stained or have something broken, like a zipper. If it is too bad off to donate,
and if I can’t salvage it for another purpose (old shirts into garage rags,
etc.) then off to the landfill they go.
Clutter
can consist of many different things in your home that you have no use for and
you have been accumulating for long time. A reality television show that has
grown in popularity is called “Hoarders” and deals with people who have an
addiction to collecting clutter. I’ve seen people who have had houses filled
with old magazines and newspapers, dolls, empty food containers. Homes where you
had to walk a narrow path to get through the house in order to get from one room
to the next. This is the result of clutter piling up to the point where it got
overwhelming for the person.
There
are two reasons why people tend to collect a lot of clutter. One reason is that
they feel that they have something of value and continue to hang onto items
that, in reality, usually have very little or no value. These types of people
are those who are afraid to throw anything out because they will find that they
need it later. There is also an obsessive/compulsive disorder that compels
people to keep everything that they receive.
Including junk mail, newspapers and other items that people normally
throw out, just in case they may want to look at them later. Some people just
like to hold onto junk. These are disorders that need to be professionally
treated and that is not what I am talking about here.
The
other reason people keep clutter is because they are too overwhelmed to know
where to begin when it comes to getting rid of the clutter and this is the
reason that I want to address in this post. Cleaning out an overstuffed closet
seems to be a monumental task that one cannot bear to undertake. So the clutter
builds and builds. Until they get to the point where they decide to chuck it all
and end up getting rid of their yearbooks, wedding dress, old baby pictures that
there are no copies of, etc. Most people fall into this second category.
The
easiest way to get rid of clutter in your home is to decide what you want to
keep and why. Obviously, things that have sentimental value or those that are
collectible are kept. Clothes that you wear are kept. Other things, however,
such as the kids toys that they no longer play with because they’re now
teenagers, clothes that you haven’t worn in years and cannot wear even if you
wanted to as well as knick knacks, old videos, music and books can be given to
many different charities.
Electronic
equipment also falls into this category. Do you really need that analog TV
sitting on the floor of your bedroom when you just bought yourself a flat
screen? Many charities will not take electronics, so it is best to advertise
them for free on a site like Craig’s List or just to give them to a neighbor
or friend who can use it. If you know someone who collects all types of junk,
you can make their day by giving them stuff you no longer want and save yourself
the trouble of having to advertise to get rid of it. A word of caution here
though, if the person cannot get any value out of it or if they are suffering
from a hoarding disorder, then you are perpetuating there problem and adding to
their situation by pawning off your clutter situation to them.
Take
your time when you are getting rid of clutter. If it seems daunting, give
yourself an hour to work on the project and then stop until the next day. Even
if you spend a half an hour a day working on what to keep and what to give away
or toss, you will start making headway. You do not have to feel as though you
need to get rid of clutter all in one day.
Once
every month, I go through the books that are keepers and those that I will never
read again and send them to the Goodwill. Subscriptions to magazines, you can
take to the doctor’s office after removing the address and name label.
Newspapers get bundled up and recycled. If you want to really get industrious
and you have the time, EPA now requires newspapers to use soy based inks that
are biodegradable so you can shred them and use them in a compost bin for your
next gardening project.
People
with little children have to be especially vigilant when it comes to toys,
stuffed animals and clothes as children outgrow these quickly. Instead of
letting all of these items pile up and clutter up closets and playrooms, it is
much better to give those that are in good shape to organizations that can sell
them for a low price to people who will be grateful to have them. This is a good
way for you to teach your children a little bit about good stewardship and how
to not want to hoard everything that they receive. Of course, there are some
things that are sentimental to your children that they will not want to get rid
of and those should be kept.
If
you are uncertain about getting rid of stuff, such as old files, clothes that
you want to try to get back into, etc. Then put them in a box, seal it up,
properly mark what is in it and keep that in the closet, nook, or where ever.
Make sure to write the date that you packed the box. If, after a year, the box
is still there un-opened, move it to the garage. If you find after another year
has passed, that you still haven’t opened it up to retrieve anything out of
it, then get rid of it. At that point, the chances of you actually needing
something out of it are very slim.
In
a nutshell, clutter is anything that makes your house look like a mess and
consists of items that you do not need and may have accumulated over the years.
When you are ready to let go, make sure that you give them to someone who may be
able to use them. The items that you keep should be stored in a place where they
are unobtrusive and do not make the house look cluttered.
You
can look for traditional storage for these items or get creative. Once you get
rid of the clutter and have, as they used to say “a place for everything and
everything in its place,” you will not only find it easier to clean your home
and office, but you will feel more organized. You will know where to find things
when you need them and not have to worry about inadvertently throwing something
out by mistake, like your high school yearbook.
The purpose of these blog
posts is to help you strive to be more successful and to create a life worth
living, so I never want to end a post without giving your some sort of “power
question” to ponder over. Answering these questions will help you to take
action.
Power Question for the
day:
What do you love? Not
flippant, but actually have a deep heart-felt endearing love for?
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