Success isn't about money, it's about freedom; freedom from the rat race. It's also about control, more so, taking control; control of your own destiny and not turning it over to someone else. Success is about legacy; creating a legacy that you can pass on.
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Wednesday, May 4, 2016
Help Local Businesses Get (Better) Online
Saturday, April 30, 2016
Get Your Client's Website Out of the Witness Protection Program
Wednesday, April 27, 2016
The First Step Is Market Research
Finding Hungry Local Advertising Buyers
Saturday, April 23, 2016
Beat the Big Guns with a Blog Post!
Test Your Niches for Total Domination
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
"Drill Down" to Big Profits
Find the Niches Where There is No Competition
Saturday, April 16, 2016
Time to Promote
Effective Ways to Sell / Promote Your Home Business!
Wednesday, April 13, 2016
Home based case study
Home Business Success Stories
Saturday, April 9, 2016
The How...
How to Start a Home Business
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
Why Home Business: The Untold Benefits
More people are jumping on the home business bandwagon in recent years. What are the benefits of doing home business besides being convenient and cost saving?
Saturday, April 2, 2016
Success- What is it?
Success for the business owner is defined as the achievement of wealth and fame.
However, for many, this definition of success remains an
unreachable dream, but there is a formula that can allow virtually anyone who
desires it bad enough to reach their goals and turn those dreams into reality.
First step is to know your products and/or services before you even start
to promote them. You
must learn everything about that which you are promoting. Know the benefits
inside and out, backwards and forwards.
If you are trying to sell something
you know very little about, your potential customer will see you as a modern day
snake oil salesmen. Your reputation, credibility and value to the customer will
be on the line.
In promoting something just for the sake of catching an extra buck may get you
some customers, but not any long-term customers or good word of mouth.
The second step is to set goals. Look at success as a roadmap and goal
setting as laying out a coarse to get you from where you are to where you want
to be. Without effective goal setting you wander around, hoping that you are
heading in the right direction. Until you have actually sat down and committed
your goals to paper, you are doing nothing more than daydreaming. I have heard
from quite a few of my mentors that a goal is a dream with a deadline.
Remember the formula: Conceiving + Believing = Achieving so write down a goal
today and break it down into achievable objectives with deadlines to each. Maybe
your goal is to grow your business or even start a new one. Write down what it
will take and then get to it.
Third step is, now that you have a goal on paper, make a plan for
reaching your goal. Being able to break down a goal into smaller objectives is
important in accomplishing the goal. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a
time.
Your objectives must be detailed enough to help you reach
the goal, but flexible enough to allow for modifications as situations arise or
“life” happens. Many times, you will find that goals change, timelines need
adjustment, and other situations develop. Having detailed objectives allow you
to make the changes necessary without starting from scratch every time something
comes up.
The fourth step is to put your plan into action. Business, as in life, is based
on action, not just thought. Without taking action, your goal will remain a
dream, which doesn’t help your business.
Once you start moving in the direction of the goals and start to work on
achieving the objectives, you will quickly find that your objectives will meet
you half way and goals, often times, will be met before the written deadline.
Act immediately. Remember back to your physics classes to the first laws of
motion: an object in motion tends to remain in motion. No matter how minute the
objective is, start moving today.
Though these steps may seem simple, if you apply they will help you reach your
destination…the success that you want in your business,
Here's to your
success and be sure to keep an eye out for the next post where I discuss more on
the topic of starting a home-based business.
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
How's your year so far?
Occasionally, I go off script and instead of giving success
advice, I just open up and shoot from the hip. This is one of those times.
It's almost April, so I ask, how's the new year go for you
so far; how about those resolutions?
According to the University of Scanton's Journal of
Clinical Psychology, only 8% of people are successful in achieving their
resolutions.
That just absolutely floored me and got me to thinking
about how I was stacking up as it came to my new year's goals.
As March 2016 is wrapping up, I recently spent a lot of
time just reflecting on where I came from in just 4 short years. We can't
successfully get to where we want to be if we don't understand where we have
been.
Here is just a few highlights of my personal journey...
I very clearly remember being part of the 92% of people who
failed to meet their resolutions, not just that year, but for many years.
For years I knew that I couldn't create a better life for my daughter by working a dead end job that kept me bound by someone else's schedule, so I tried everything to get out of the rat race; I built an engraving business, got into e-commerce, even tried my hand at authorship, but nothing worked and I kept finding myself in a position where I was having to go back to a 9 to 5 or be a stay at home dad where we barely lived paycheck to payccheck. Nothing seemed to click.
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I was a slave to the job, a slave to the clock, a slave to my creditors.
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I had no time to do the things I enjoyed.
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I had no energy to enjoy time with my family.
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No extra money, so no savings, no vacation, no splurging, no emergency fund.
To make matter worse, I couldn't get on facebook without
seeing, what seemed to be everyone around me, being more successful than I was.
It sucked. Friends taking off in the middle of the week to travel across
country, new cars, new house, blah blah blah...
It seemed like everyone around me was successful while I
had to listen to my daughter (4 years old at the time) crying because I couldn't
afford a happy meal for her.
I kept asking myself,
"Why is this so hard?"
I definitely had a bruised ego, but I still had this dream
that I could make a little extra money while spending more time with my family
and not chained to a desk or getting stuck in traffic.
I started thinking that the only way to make money online
was to sell stuff on eBay or turning into some sort of sleazy MLM type marketer
(not that all MLM ventures are pyramid schemes). It was heart breaking because I
did not want to do that.
Being able to help people and actually get paid for it was
unfathomable to me and, though I saw it done, I felt that you had to be an
expert with over 20 years expertise and the title of guru to be able to be
successful online.
I was wrong!
Way wrong. Looking back on it, I was always just a few
steps away from my dream, I just didn't see it or understand what it was that I
was missing.
My goal for the past decade or so, was to figure out how to
get out of the rat race. Breaking the golden handcuffs once and for all.
I finally found the secret to having a successful life;
After years of trial and error, Zig Ziglar has been giving the answer for years;
"You'll get everything in life that you want if you help enough people get
what they want."
This is the reason for this blog series. My goal, now that
I am out of the rat race, is to show as many people as I can how to do the same.
Now it's your turn
What is your resolution? How can I help you climb out of
the maze? Not everyone has the same definition of success, nor do we all have
the same hurdles to jump over, so what do you need help with?
Drop me a note and let me know.
Saturday, March 26, 2016
The Part Timer
Time Management Tips
For Building Passive Income Part Time
As you start working on your passive income, you will realise the importance of time management. You want a steady side income but you must not give up your day time job which gives your secured monthly wages. How to optimally use your 24 hours a day on your passive income and your day time job?
Strategy #1:
Keep your home and your work desk organised
You
spend most time developing your passive income from home after work. Hence,
having a messy home and work desk will make you lose time when you have to
search for a missing item every now and then. It dampens your working mood and
creativity. To be efficient, you not only need to keep them clean and tidy, but
also make sure they are organised so that you can find your items at ease when
you need them.
Strategy #2: Compound your activities
Do you listen to music while driving or while doing gym? If yes, why don’t try to learn something about passive income and business instead at the same time? How? Listen to motivational and inspiring podcasts on your MP3 that will teach you about business and passive income. They are easily available on the internet! You can also read a motivational business book while on public transport or even in queue. Be industrious!
Strategy #3: Spend less time on TVs
If the first thing you do when you come home from work is to switch on your TV and then stick to it throughout the night, you are watching too much of it. Cut down on your TV consumption. Use the free time to work on your passive income. Read and learn about it from the internet or books.
Strategy #4: Use time management tool
There are several time management tools out there. One of the techniques is by listing down your tasks according to their priority and urgency. Work on those which are marked as most important and most urgent first, and the least important and least urgent tasks last. Cross them out once you have completed them to have a general idea on your progress. Besides a ‘today’ list, you can also work on a ‘this week’ list or a ‘this month’ list.
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Passive Income from Active Actions
Passive income is a source of income which generates money without you being present or working hard. You might ask, is that even possible? Yes, thousands of people have done it!! A popular example lately is the sales of products and services online. Exactly how to actively start your own passive income? This article outlines the steps.
First, generate ideas. You need to set your mind to actively churn out ideas while you are doing other things. Always carry a notepad and pen with you so that you can keep a log of all your inspirations and ideas. Commit yourself to come out with at least one idea per day. You may start by thinking around your areas of interest.
Second, try it. Once you have generated several ideas, start trying them out in order to see whether they are workable, including those that might sound absurd. For example, if you can draw well and want to earn money by selling your cartoons online, start drawing it to see how it works!! If you don’t try them on, your ideas will gather dust and you will forget and lose your initial passion about it.
Third, shortlist ideas. Select few that you think are the most workable and you are more likely to be able to commit. Do take your financial status into consideration as some passive incomes require a capital to start and maintain (e.g. sale of products online, property investment) while others require low or no start-up capital (e.g. sale of services and e-books online).
Fourth, plan it. With a shortlisted idea, plan how you want to develop your income stream. Find out other people doing the similar thing and how they are doing it. Give it a go, even if it does not work well from the beginning. If it does not work out, at least you have tried and now you can move on to your other ideas.
Fifth, save money. While your passive income might not necessarily need a large capital it is best that you save some money from the beginning. This allows you to see the outcome of your active actions on your passive income and allows more flexibility in growing your income stream later on. Once your first passive income has become steady, use this fund to work on the second one, and then third one!
Before long, you will have multiple passive income streams which are flowing steadily and making you financially independent!
Here's to your success. If you have any topics on building a business or creating the anti-rat race lifestyle that you are looking for, drop me a message.
Saturday, March 19, 2016
From Passive Income to Financial Independence
<p class="MsoNormal">Growing your passive income online to eventually achieve
financial independence requires some extra work. Here are some tips to do
exactly that – fire up your passive income!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">First rule in growing your passive income is you must
demonstrate genuine interest and be genuine in sharing. Your potential clients
can feel it from the content of your website. Be honest about your products.
Generally people will not mind if you are recommending something useful however,
you can turn people off easily if people realise what you recommend is actually
of less value than you claim.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">As the popularity of the social media skyrockets, it would
make no sense if you take advantage of them to promote your products. Use social
media such as Facebook and Twitter to get in touch with your fans and potential
clients. Reply to every comment and reply every email. Engage the readers in all
conversations. Slowly, you will build a marketing army which will market your
products for you in their network.</p>
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subscriber list.<o:p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">A list of subscribers to your blog is essentially a list of
potential customers who are really interested at what you can offer them. It is
much easier to promote your products to these subscribers and get them to buy
your products rather than doing a general promotion online.</p>
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value <o:p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This is one of the most powerful strategies. If you can
deliver valuable products consistently, who would not want to own them? Put your
passion into growing your passive income and aim to educate your clients with
your products. It will keep them coming back for more.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Good luck!</p>
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
A Guide to Leprechaun spotting
Taking a break from our normally scheduled program to bring you a bit o' blarney as we go into St. Patrick's day.
By Fearghus Hayes O’Connell
Some people go out of their way to avoid the wee folk, others pursue
this fairy gentry in search of fortune. Lore tells us that the Leprechauns live
in the oaks and the hawthorn trees, the fairy forts, and recently in the shires.
But just where can the wee folk be found?
Leprechauns, many say, are the ancient citizens of the Tuatha de Danaan,
a godlike race that inhabited Ireland for over 200 years. The de Danaan
(Children of the goddess Danu) fell to the invading Milesians.
With their defeat the Tuatha de Danaan retreated to the sidhe mounds
where the fae who lived there took them in as protectors to their ring forts.
After a few generations, the fae magic of the area began to work on them and
they slowly became the dwarf sized mischief makers that you see today.
To locate a ringfort you must look for the tell tale signs.
Historically, ringforts are circular enclosures surrounded by an earthen or
stone bank which were used as farmsteads from about 500 to 1200 A.D. Within the
protective earthen bank, activities such as cooking, grain grinding and pottery
making took place along with everyday living. Approximately 40,000 ringforts
still dot the Irish countryside.
More direct routes to find yourself a Leprechaun is to find pathways to
the land of fairie or Tir Na n'Og, which
often can be found to exist in cave entrances, toadstool rings, and large old
Oaks with hollowed insides.
The many standing stone piles oddly placed also give rise to fairy
workings. Perhaps Irelands best known portal tomb is Poulnabrone,
located alongside the Corofin-Ballyvaughan road in County Claire. This Late
Stone Age monument, though the topic of much fairy legend, once held the bones
of 16 adults and children who lived in the surrounding farming community.
To those searching for the wee kind, these sites are a good place to
start. But remember, the fairie folk are felt more often than seen and their
fondest sport is that which they make with humans.
Always remember to
forget
The things that made you sad.
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad.
Always remember to forget
The friends that proved untrue.
But never forget to remember
Those that have stuck by you.
Always remember to forget
The troubles that passed away.
But never forget to remember
The blessings that come each day.
Hope you have a great St Patty's day. Don't drink and drive and as always,
here's to your success.
Saturday, March 12, 2016
Secrets Behind Passive Income Opportunities
Wednesday, March 9, 2016
How to Make Your First Buck Online
The advent of Internet has made money making easier than ever. Instead of being physically present at a certain location to promote and sell your products or services, you now have the whole world as your potential clients! It is no wonder that more and more people are turning to internet to make their passive income. How to start making your first buck online? One of the simplest way is to develop and market information products or in other words, an eBook.
1. Pick a topic.
Find an area of your interest or something you are familiar with. For example, if you are working in a publishing company as an editor, you can share tips on publishing magazines or self-publishing.
2. Survey the
market.
Use “Google External Keyword” tool to find out the search volume for your market. Search volume reflects the interest of the online population on your topic. As long as the “keyword” of your topic has a decent search volume, you can assume that your informational product would have some demand when it is put up on sale.
3. Brainstorming for
ideas
Keep a list of ideas for your topic, either on your note book or on your computer. The single major benefit of writing down all your ideas as they come in is that you can avoid forgetting about them. This strategy would save you much time if you use it regularly.
4. Get a website up
You need a platform to promote and sell your informational product. Start with using free blogsite such as Blogspot or Wordpress. As your traffic builds up and you are really making an income, consider to upgrade to web hosting site where you have more freedom in customising the website for the content.
5. Draw traffic to
your website
A common strategy is by creating interesting content on your blogsite. This free information serves two purposes: first, to educate the public about the topic and secondly, prime them to purchase your ebook! You can also go to a similar blog, post relevant comments and share the link to your articles.
Now you are set to generate passive income online with your informational product!!
Saturday, March 5, 2016
Go Local : A New Plan for Using Your Internet Marketing Skills
Use Your IM
Skills Locally
Help Local Businesses Get (Better) Online
Okay, so you've made some money online and know the basics of the business. Here's a thought: take your skills and help local businesses market their most profitable merchandise, products or services. You can also help them scale up any underused capacity that they want to promote. Best of all, you can plan it so they give you monthly, recurring payments!
Most brick-and-mortar local businesses know their business, but don't know how to market their business effectively. Sure, they do what their competition is doing, but they don't think outside of the box. You, as an experienced marketer, can help them in ways they may never even imagine.
First, you have to realize that what local businesses need is not an education in IM. They need someone to look at what they're doing with fresh eyes and a willingness to listen to them. The worst thing you can do is walk into a small business with a "business in a box" solution. You need to know what the problem is before you offer any solutions.
Avoid making the same mistake that many new Direct Response Internet Marketing hopefuls make: build a product or service, then check to see if anybody is already buying something like it. Do your market research first. Locate the hungry buyers for advertising and promotion.
Find out who is paying a lot of advertising money in your local area. Approach these businesses first, before you think about helping smaller, less profitable businesses. One easy way to start your market research is to look at Yellow Pages books and business directories. Concentrate on those businesses that have big display ads.
Full-page (or large) display ads cost a lot of money. In fact, the amount is usually so much that they are paid for on a monthly basis. All you have to do is call or write to these resources and find out the monthly fees for advertising in their publications
You may be in for a shock! Small and medium-sized businesses who do this kind of advertising pay thousands of dollars every month in advertising fees. All you have to do is stand in front of that flood of money.
Now you have an idea of which local businesses in your area are already "hungry buyers" for what you can offer them. You'll be able to approach them with confidence. Your marketing skills, applied to their business and marketing plan, can really boost their revenue.
Avoid using IM "jargon" when speaking to these businesses. Remember, they know their business. They don't know about autoresponders, split testing, affiliate links, analytics for Web pages, etc. You'll just make what you do seem foreign to them.
Instead, find out what their business and marketing plans are. Help them target their most profitable merchandise, products or services. Find ways to help them improve the marketing of any underused capacity or products they have.
Think of their needs first, before you offer any solution. You'll be more likely to get a new client and get more money every month for helping that client.
Wednesday, March 2, 2016
Let Your Fingers Do the Walking
Finding Hungry
Local Advertising Buyers
The First Step Is Market Research
To continue with local niche marketing, lets dive down into research, because this is the first step that tells you if you are doing it right.
If you want to make the most effective use of your time and energy helping local businesses get online, start with smart market research. Instead of guessing which businesses spend big ad dollars, go to the Yellow Pages or a local business directory that has display ads.
Start at the beginning and go through the listings. When you find a niche that has full-page or very large display ads, make a note of it. Continue searching until you reach the end, or find more than enough potential niches.
In most cases, you'll find there are "rich-niche" businesses and professions that advertise like this:
● Contractors
● Dentists
● Doctors
● Insurance
● Lawyers
● Real Estate
These businesses and professionals make large sums of money on each new customer or client they get. Spending thousands of dollars every month to advertise is just a fraction of what they receive in profits. You can be the one that gives them great value for their advertising spending.
Most business owners complain that 50% of their advertising budget is wasted. They just don't know which 50%! You know, from experience, about adding Google Analytics, Stat Counter or any of the other third party services for these statistics. You'll be able to prove (and show) a prospect where their potential business is coming from, what they do when they view a Web page and where they leave (exit).
No Yellow Pages book can do that! Instead of guessing whether or not a given display ad is performing well, a customer of yours who has a Web page will have measurable statistics to rely upon. These statistics can also provide valuable market research for the client. No Yellow Pages book can do that either!
For you, the marketer, the results you get from your exploration of the Yellow Pages listings is just the start. You'll have to "weed out" all the retail-oriented display ads like restaurants and other businesses that are working on a small profit margin. Just because a restaurant has a full-page menu, that doesn't mean they're making a big profit. They're just up there because their competition has a menu, too!
Take the final results of your searches and organize them into categories that will simplify the next step in your market research. Put all contractors as sub-listings under the more general term "contractors". That way, when you take the next step and search for them in Google, you'll be able to just run through the list one word at a time, like this:
1. Contractors building
2. Contractors concrete
3. Contractors drywall
And so on…
In case you have any questions in your mind if this is a good way to find hungry ad buyers, call your Yellow Pages advertising department and ask for the cost of all the display ads they offer. Be shocked! (If you have never priced a yellow pages ad, trust me you will be). Ask them if you can get a discount on the "rate card" they quote you.
Then you'll know for sure that this is probably the most powerful source of market research for hungry advertisers in your local area!
Next time, we will get into more detail about the Front door method so keep an eye out.
Also, if you have any questions or comments, let me know. If I don't know the answer, I won't blow smoke, but will let you know and then I will find out. I am a research nerd.
Saturday, February 27, 2016
Beat the Big Guns with a Blog Post!
Test Your Niches for
Total Domination: #1 in Google in 10 Minutes!
In my last post, we started talking about niche marketing to local businesses to create online presence that ranks in Google. I would like to get more into specifics by getting into how, having a blog (similar to the one you are reading now) can help push your endeavors forward.
Online Yellow Pages sites can have a Google Page Rank of 8 for their home page. Despite that, a lowly blog post from a new blog with a Page Rank of 0 can beat them in the SERP's (search engine results page)! That's because, for local search, local content wins.
If you don't already have a marketing blog that's been up for a while, start a new one. In the meantime, you can write an article, using the keywords you want to test in the title. Sprinkle them throughout the article using natural language...use NATURAL language. I can't stress this enough; Google has added so many algorithm changes to weed out the marketers who try "seeding" content in order to create false relevancy, so don't just throw in a keyword for the sake of throwing it in. create a viable sentence which will seem logical.
Either way, your content could end up being crawled and indexed by Google very quickly. An established blog or article directory gets crawled more frequently than a new blog or website. Use "seasoned" resources like these to make your test.
If your blog post or article ends up in the top spot of the search engine results, you have a viable niche! While the blog post or article may not stay there right away, don't worry. Google's dynamic indexing will eventually give you a solid place in the search results over time.
Test as many of these niches as you need, according to your plan. Prepare yourself to dominate the ones in which you rank well. The best next step to take is to start a blog that's specifically made to support your prospective clients.
Once you realize the power and ease with which you can use your IM skills to dominate local search, you'll get excited! This is a wide-open market with few effective competitors. Unless there is another Direct Response Internet Marketer in your location, you'll have no effective competition.
Even if you have one or more colleagues in your area, you can get together and divide up the territory among yourselves. There's no need to fight battles among yourselves, unless you like the competition!
This whole process you've begun is leading up to your main marketing strategy: getting as many of the local businesses you can give top spots in the search engines to pay you a monthly fee that's a percentage of their Yellow Pages fees. Once you can show these heavy advertisers that you can help them dominate local search with your ongoing help, they'll pay you ongoing fees to do just that!
The amazing thing about this particular part of your testing is how fast it can happen. A blog with a Page Rank of 1 that is regularly crawled by Google can have a new post in the #1 spot in less than 10 minutes! An article on a well-respected article directory can do the same thing just as fast. That's unusual for articles, but blog posts get special treatment.
Now you need to think about how you can help your prospects beyond your blog posts and articles. They may already have a website. It just doesn't appear in the search engine results because of SEO mistakes. The great thing is that you don't even have to repair what's wrong to help them out. All they need is a "front door" to their local business.
Stay tuned for more...
If you haven't checked it out yet, here is a nice resource that I found that might help you further. Just click here for details.
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
"Drill Down" to Big Profits
Find the Niches Where
There is No Competition and Let Google Show You the Money!
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Keeping it Fresh and Flexible
As with any
plan, your plan for work/life balance must be kept fresh and flexible. Be sure
you allow for contingencies and guard against backsliding.
Old habits
die-hard and you may find yourself in need of a refresher to stay on track.
Look at your
plan often and keep talking about it with your friends and family and
co-workers. The more you reinforce its important to yourself and others, the
less chance you will fall back into your old ways.
Remember that
nothing ever goes just as planned, so be ready for the unexpected and don’t
let it get you down.
If your plan did
not include a contingency for a particular event, just sit down and look over
the plan again and make room for some new ideas to address the problem you
face.
Don’t be
discouraged if you hit a snag.
“For
a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But
there was always some obstacle in the way. Something to be got through first,
some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then
life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life”
~ Fr. Alfred D'Souza
Remember that it
will take awhile for the world to catch up to you and while many companies and
people may not understand the need for balance, the fact that you do, may save
your life and your relationships.
If those around
you fail to recognize the importance of your efforts and scoff at your taking
a lower paying job or choosing to stay home with a sick child, remain secure
in the knowledge that you are running a marathon, not a sprint and that in the
end, you will finish the race well!
You may be
breaking new ground. You may be a role model. And, that position is not always
easy. Pioneers have hard work to do, but they ARE the first to see the beauty
of the new horizon.
So, stick to
your plan! You will get better at this as your old habits die. Remember to
exercise self-discipline and have the courage of your convictions.
Remember to pay
attention to the important things and keep things in perspective.
Don’t spin
your wheels or expend too much energy on the things you can’t change or the
things you don’t feel are important.
Just because
someone else tells you it is important, doesn’t mean you have to believe
them.
Keep the plan
and the perspective fresh and if one thing doesn’t work, try another. It is
your commitment to the change that is important.
And if you find
another way to get there, that is just fine!
It may not turn
out exactly as you expected, but your focus on the goal of balance is the
important thing! Without that focus, you can’t change anything!
Don’t be afraid to get advice from others you trust if you get stuck on the path. You don’t have to do this alone.
“Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars”
~ Henry Van Dyke
We’ve covered
a lot of ground in a very short period of time, and you may want to review
this information again to make sure you’ve got it all.
The concepts are
simple, and although you may find yourself wondering if all of them relate to
work/life balance, you will find answers as you implement the steps we’ve
outlined here.
Each of these
steps is designed to address a different part of the problem.
Having enough
time and focus to appreciate your life outside of work is one thing.
Having the
mental, emotional and physical stamina to do it all is another.
Understanding
how to keep your life in balance, and what the factors involved in a long-term
commitment, is also important.
If you can’t
manage your time, you will never have enough of it, no matter how few hours
you work in a week.
Taking a step
back to look at how you got to where you are and what issues you’ll need to
resolve to backtrack – that’s important too.
Think of this as
a primer, of sorts. Of course, the particulars are yours to figure out and
your specific issues are different than the issues your neighbor will face,
but there are many common factors.
As we said at
the beginning of this discussion, you’ll need a plan. So, let’s review
some of the key components.
You can adjust
and tweak your plan along the way, as you need to make changes, but getting
the plan in place is the first and most critical step.
Sit down
with a pencil and paper and gather your thoughts and expectations.
Talk to
your family, your boss, your co-workers and your friends and get their
thoughts.
Then set
your goals!
Make the
plan and move forward.
Adjust
the plan along the way if you need to do so and be realistic about what you can
accomplish and how long it will take.
Keep the
lines of communication open and keep people informed about your goals and your
progress and about what is important to you.
Learn to
manage your time better so you can leverage the free time you have to use it as
you wish.
Schedule
and keep commitments with your family and friends.
Find
ways to improve your productivity and learn to transition from work to home and
back again so that you are truly ‘present’ in every situation and not
spinning your wheels thinking about other things.
Don’t
get distracted!
Exercise
self-discipline and stay committed. Pay attention and listen to others and do it
right the first time so you don’t have to do it over again!
Learn to
handle and diffuse stress and eliminate it from your life wherever you can.
Be
optimistic and positive.
Understand
that work/life balance is key to your health and happiness and it can actually
make you more productive at work and give you a better quality of time with your
family and friends.
And, so we come to
the end of our journey!
Now, it’s your
turn to get the plan on paper.
You can do
this!
Take control of
your life and live it to the fullest.
Keep your
priorities straight!
Remember! You don’t live to work – you work to live!
“I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well”
~
Diane Ackerman